Do you ever feel like your very best friend is nothing like you ???
Or s/he never has the same opinion about any topic with you ???
Do you think that you should end a relationship that you have nothing in common ???
Tell me with your comments what you think about this situation. And at the end of this week I will post about my opinions and we can see how different we are. ( If we can be good friends or not ) :):)
Find your name here 9h
16 years ago
7 comments:
of course we have differences but differences is what makes a friendship more colorful more fun. so dont you dare think to leave me cause you are NOT!
Hi Basak!
I really have big problems with one of my friends... It's a long story to tell here but if I nedd to summarize, we have nothing in common. We always fight but non of us can say I don't want to see u again. I sometimes have a feeling that only I am the one who is working to work this friendship out. There is nothing in return not even a thank you or something. She has a very different character than me. Different things matter more to us. We fight of small things but she doesn't care 'bout this. I thinks that this friendship is getting to be a need or something. She just needs me not to be seen alone. Do u have any suggestions?
LOVE U... =)
Dear deniz I am going to tell my own opinions about this situation on Friday keep checking my blog. :)
But do not expect a lot from me because I am nothing like those women who give advices about other people's problems. :):) As a friend, I can tell you what I would do about the situation but nothing more. Please at first post a comment of what you are planning to do about the situation so I can say that I would do the same or something else.
This is a very common problem we all face in daily life. When you are dicussing something you suddenly realize (or you already knew) that the person whom you name as your best friend is fending opposite thoughts compared to yours. You start to think that you are bored of that person and keep remembering judging him/her considering their thoughts. I blamed some of my friends for their thoughts and learned not to do the same next time. We must accept them, otherwise you'll end up fighting with the rest of the world just because you don't share the same ideas.
i think people change a lot and we have different friends for different reasons. if we all always stayed the same, we would have the same friends we had when we first made friends, but because we change and our lives change and go in different directions, so do our friends and relationships.
this is a very good topic. i think i have different friends for different things. as long as those friends know what they mean to me, i don't think we need to part ways completely - maybe just take breaks.
it is hard to accept people for what they are able to offer, because I think people expect a lot from each other sometimes...maybe too much.
The people that give advice for others like Güzen ABla you meant bashak :)))
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